If you’re looking for sympathy flower arrangements, you may have some questions about color choice, etiquette, and more. The Flower Bar is here to help you navigate these questions.

What are the Best Flowers to Give to Someone who is Grieving?

White flowers are traditionally used for sympathy bouquets. This is because white symbolizes peace, serenity, sympathy, and beginnings. Common white flowers often used in sympathy bouquets include lilies, roses, snapdragons, and orchids.
While white flowers are traditional, many people choose to incorporate other favorite flowers or favorite colors of the deceased, for a more personal touch.
If you are sending flowers for a for a wake or memorial service, we recommend all families purchase from the same florist for a more coordinated, cohesive look. These may include casket spray flowers, or a garden basket. If you are sending flowers directly to a family's home, opt for a vase-size arrangement or potted orchid.
Of course, there is no one best flower to gift someone going through a difficult time. Ultimately, your bouquet choice is a personal one.

What is the Etiquette for Sympathy Flowers?

Consider sending flowers as soon you learn of someone’s passing. Many people also send flowers for funerals, or around the time of a person's funeral.
Many people opt for white flowers, but you could also consider a light yellow, pink, or purple flower. A sympathy plant – such as a white orchid – is a popular alternative to a traditional bouquet.

You can send sympathy flowers directly to the family of the person who has passed. If you are sending a larger bouquet of funeral flowers for delivery, consider sending flowers to the funeral home.

Sympathy Flowers: What Should I Send?

Some families may include a note that they prefer a donation to charity “in lieu of flowers.” In this case you typically donate the amount you would have spent on flowers.
Even if this note is included, consider sending flowers along with a donation. Flowers bring comfort to the bereaved, and make a beautiful addition to a person’s home, funeral home, or church.
If the deceased is a close friend or business acquaintance we recommend sending a basket, orchid, or large floral arrangement. If you are unsure what to send or need some extra guidance, contact The Flower Bar. We are always happy to offer suggestions.

: Where Can I find Sympathy Flowers Near Me?

The Flower Bar is pleased to provide same-day delivery sympathy flowers, and other floral arrangements, to New York City, Westchester, and Fairfield Counties.

Why Choose The Flower Bar?

At The Flower Bar, Nancy and her team carefully source only the world’s finest flowers. We seek out unique varieties of flowers not easily found elsewhere. We are wholly committed to providing only the highest quality of customer service and care.
Every aspect of our business is designed with sustainability in mind. We work only with flower partners who adhere to the proper ecological practices, including soil, water, and energy conservation. We use only locally sourced flowers and biodegradable packaging.

Our expertise is in providing the best, most appropriate sympathy flowers to fit the occasion. We only use premium flowers, so your arrangement will reflect the esteem you hold for the family and the deceased.
We work closely with the funeral home or church, so you can feel confident your flowers will be delivered to the correct location. We partner closely with the following funeral homes:

• John J. Fox Funeral Home, Larchmont


• Coxe & Graziano Funeral Home, Mamaroneck


• Ballard Durand Funeral Home White Plains


• Lloyd Maxcy Funeral Home, New RochelleL


• George T. Davis Funeral Home, New Rochelle


• Pelham Funeral Home


• Graham Funeral Home, Rye


• Fred H. McGrath & Sons, Funeral Home, Bronxville


• Edwin L. Bennett Funeral Home, Scarsdale

Learn more about our team and commitment to excellence and sustainability.

Can I get Same Day Delivery at The Flower Bar?

Those looking for same day funeral flowers will find them at The Flower Bar. We offer same day delivery for orders of sympathy flowers to New York, Westchester, and Fairfield Counties.
Express your condolences and care with same day sympathy flowers from The Flower Bar.